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Michael Jackson (1958-2009) was excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. He fell in love very quickly and had little self-restraint or concern for propriety when his feelings had been stirred. However, it may have been difficult for Michael to sustain relationships after the first rush of excitement wanes, especially if his partner was basically a conservative person who did not like to change or experiment. Nontraditional relationships appealed to Michael, and personal freedom was of paramount importance to him.

As he was quickly aroused, he also liked to play with fire. A bit of a Don Juan, he sought adventures in love relationships, but tended to be somewhat promiscuous. Jackson tended to lead a modern way of life – in his style of clothes as well as general lifestyle.

Michael tended to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies, or domestic habits, and he may have felt that he did not fit in with normal people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in his life and relationships would have been very beneficial, but may not have been easily achieved. Ideally Michael could have created a unique lifestyle that afforded him a lot of personal space, freedom, and flexibility to follow his own somewhat erratic rhythms – while at the same time providing some order and consistency. There was a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Michael also, which may have been reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Michael craved change and excitement, whether he realized it consciously or not.

Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, Michael had an understanding of other people’s feelings and needs which bordered on telepathy. Michael was extremely compassionate and could not bear to see any fellow creature – human or animal – suffer. Because of his kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion were drawn to Michael for help, which he readily gave. Sometimes his soft-heartedness was taken advantage of.

Michael was a gentle, poetic soul and had a great love and affinity for music. Because many of his feelings were vague he could not easily verbalize how he experienced life, and music seemed a natural language for Michael. He was also extremely romantic and often “in love with being in love.”

Michael craved love, appreciation and attention from others and hated to be ignored. He was rather susceptible to flattery and loved to feel special. Michael enjoyed a touch of drama and color in his love relationships and was impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.

Michael was attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who could expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he had never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner was important to him.

Also, Michael felt love and kinship for people everywhere, not only within his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives was a gift of his.

When it came to love relationships, Michael was likely to have felt pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Michael had an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed above. These urges did not have to conflict, but they certainly could, especially if he acted on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.

Loyalty, fidelity and security were very important to Michael in love relationships. He was cautious about giving his heart away but true to those who did win his love. Michael was interested in a person’s character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Michael at all, for love seemed to get deeper and richer – and more satisfying for him – with time.