Quite often, we use labels on ourselves and others without even realizing that we are doing it. And most often, they are negative. What we don’t realize is how much these labels can hurt us and others. The challenge is, whatever you state to yourself repetitively, even if you know on a conscious level …
There’s a psychological technique called gaslighting which is incredibly potent especially in persuasive situations. A few nights ago I was watching TV, just flipping around aimlessly, and came upon an old episode of M*A*S*H. In this episode, BJ is bored and to entertain himself he cooks up a plan for amusement at Winchester’s expense. …
“I don’t get it!… I’ve a nice car. I’m accomplished. My A-List Corvette makes the next guy look funky! I even wear the latest Armani! Why doesn’t she flip for me? Why am I always alone?” STOP! How many times did you pound the dashboard of your Corvette bewailing this persistent question? The avenue …
The key to a successful first date is to relax and just be the real you. If you try to act in a way that you think the other person will like, then they may start liking someone who you are not, and in the end you will wind up breaking up and getting …
Were you there, when they crucified my Lord? That is the title of a well-loved old hymn. Imagine standing on that hill 2000 years ago witnessing the nailing of Jesus on the cross. Here he is already near death after a heavy crown of thorns had been sunk deeply into his skull. His back …
Wedding invitations are one of the most important purchases that the bride and groom will make during the wedding planning process. This guide to wedding invitations will make the process that much easier for the couple. Finding the perfect wedding invitations is not going to be difficult. The best way to search for these …
There are some very neat tricks that you can use to have a better time at the disco. The way to socialize while being there is very different from the one, that is used when you are in a more quiet place. This calls for a completely different strategy, and this is what you …
What exactly is polyamory? First of all, polyamory is nothing to do with parrots. The word “polyamory” is based on the Latin and Greek words for “many” and “loves.” Polyamory means having more than just yourself and your partner in your relationship. With polyamory, everyone involved in the relationship knows about it and is …
Living God’s purpose for your life takes a special set of skills and techniques. One of the questions I hear often is, “Where Do I Begin?” Being clear about your kingdom assignment is not enough. Realizing and really understanding God’s vision for your life is an amazing feeling, but it is part of a …
Prostate health is essential for lifelong sexual pleasure and function. Prostate massage is a healthy and pleasurable activity that can be enjoyed as part of your intimate life. According to the precepts of Oriental medicine, massage of this acupressure point is beneficial for optimal prostate health and sexual function. The whole purpose of this …